My ex is dating a felon
If current trends persist, one in every 15 adults, or 6.6 percent, will serve time in prison, according to Criminal Records.Statutes and jurisprudence practices vary from state to state, but depending on the state and the nature of the felony, many parents who are convicted of felonies retain their child custody rights.
The person who sells meth to school kids is very different from the person who went to jail because he was driving from one state to another with a two ounce head bag. Are you the kind of person who would treat both of those people (the guy selling meth to schoolkids, and the guy driving with two ounces of grass) as if they were the same exact kind of person, just because both had been charged with drug felonies? You want to know if you can trust a guy who 6 years ago was convicted and jailed over an unspecified drug charge, who has gone through rehab, going back to school and getting his life on track, and apparently has stayed out of trouble since he has gotten out. Everything you have said speaks to why you should be trusting him. As of 2000, an estimated 6 percent of United States adults were convicted felons, according to author Joan Petersilia.Why do people always ask advice about situations like this, as if they should be allowed to keep their eyes and ears closed, and just follow the advice blindly? Was he a dealer living in a pimped out apartment selling whatever drugs people wanted? Your asking this question shows that you can't see past the past he is leaving behind. Either you need to become a better person, someone worthy of the second chance he has earned, or you need to find someone with a past you can live with.Could he be a lying and manipulative individual who always has criminal intent on his mind? Does the fact that he was a felon have ANYTHING to do with it? In fact, I know more people who *should* have gone to jail but have managed to stay out, that are far worse than some people I know who went to jail and did their time. Do you even realize that in the different examples I just gave you, the guilty person would be radically different from the next? There are men that are felons that can completely turn their life around and never end up in trouble again.
My husband is one of these men, so I know it is very possible.^^^^This is what I was thinking^^^^^ EVen if a felon has turned his/her life around, that conviction has a way of following you for the rest of your life as mentioned in this example.
The concern is that if you have hurt your child once, you could hurt your child again.
If the prior conviction involves higher level charges like sexual abuse or life-threatening injuries, the court can potentially go even further and terminate all of your parental rights to your child.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members. Women, run as fast as you can, away from these men. I dated a guy like this, bought his BS story about how he had all this hard luck that got him into trouble, and how he wanted to straighten his life out...within 2 years, he was back in prison, for several charges.
After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. He just could not live a straight life, going to work, coming home, ... I started dating another guy, we were together for six months..he tells me his hard luck prison story, told me he did not wany to tell me sooner, blah, blah...well, in the end...yes, I did overlook it..he ended up being a user too, full of BS. Just because you had these occurances don't mean all are that way.
A family court judge typically has broad discretion to make custody orders that are in the best interest of the minor children.