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4 reasons why dating is so hard

Meeting a native Bay Area dweller who actually plans on sticking it out to the bitter end is a rare feat (they all most likely moved to the East Bay).You’ll meet people from all over the world on your dating escapades, but don’t get too close.

Because the idea of expecting to be happy in a relationship is relatively new, we are often not good at it.For many expats, Dubai is not the final step in their life’s journey.Their time in Dubai is considered as a transit phase until they move on to the next destination or go back to their countries.Your Italian or Nebraskan lover may leave soon and want to take you with them.Let’s just hope it’s the former place and not the latter.You have more choices and options in terms of potential partners which is a good thing and a bad thing.

Psychologists have coined the term “paradox of choice” to refer to the downsides of having many choices.

Next up, women get a lot of messages, depending on their age and demographic.

When I sign up at a dating site to review it, I often get hundreds of messages in the first few days.

On the surface level having many potential partners seems like a good thing (and it is at times), but it also creates challenges for you mentally and emotionally when it comes to finding love.

You need to learn specific mental and emotional strategies to be able to quickly and easily make the best choices for you when it comes to love. People have increasingly High Expectations for a Partner.

Which brings us to the first point…Welcome to San Francisco!